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PostSubject: "It's what's inside that counts."   Tue Dec 03, 2013 1:38 am

A friend brought this to my attention recently and I felt like expressing my own thoughts on it.

I definitely care about someone's personality. If you're ugly inside, then why would I want to be around you?
However, I also know damn well that I somewhat care about appearances.
If I'm not attracted to you at all in any way wouldn't the relationship get to a point where it just fell flat?
Concerning people who are just friends I care about appearances far less because I don't have to be attracted to you to be your friend.
When it comes to myself I care about my appearance because I care about what I think of myself. My own ideal of beauty is what matters to me.
I feel as if people who say they don't care about physical appearance at all or they don't judge anyone on sight are just lying.

I'm not positive with my wording because I'm not the best at putting my thoughts and feelings out there, but hopefully you understand.

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PostSubject: Re: "It's what's inside that counts."   Tue Dec 03, 2013 2:18 am

I'm exactly the same personally. Looks can often be more important since feelings are generally more primitive than logical
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PostSubject: Re: "It's what's inside that counts."   Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:20 am

It really depends on certain preference. What some people find attractive, others find hideous, and same the other way around. Others are able to look past physical appearances and look for what's underneath. I do agree that a relationship suffers if sexual attraction isn't coming from both sides (with the exception of panromantic relationships, but those are an entirely different matter).

I'm personally able to look past it, I always have figured that it's just a matter of me getting used to someone. No-one instantly likes everything about a person, whether they want to believe that or not. It's a matter of time. Some relationships work and some don't.

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PostSubject: Re: "It's what's inside that counts."   Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:33 am

I agree that it's possible to just get used to a person and look past it, but often there's something that I find at least somewhat attractive about their appearance and they become gradually more attractive to me with time.
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PostSubject: Re: "It's what's inside that counts."   Wed Dec 04, 2013 6:43 pm

if someone isnt attractive physically at least moderately, im not attracted to him

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